Love and respect

Well today I went walking and this young boy tried to pick me up with the saddest line ever. So when asked what's my name I replied, I am married, to which he responds so your name is married and walks away. :)

Our society of young adults have no respect for age.  They see a young female and look at us as an opportunity  to conquer.

After years of marriage, my husband has not spoken to me honestly in so long I have lost count. So, this sad attempt at this youngster would seem flattering but I was more annoyed than anything. This is the way the devil uses oppotunities to trap us.  Do you know when to recognise when you are being tested?

Well that's the fear of most people living in lives where they are not happy. Where they bearly talk, or share anything in common. They fall to the wiles of the devil. Job was tested and we will be too.

No marriage can survive without trust and open communication.  It's hard to survive when the one you care about doesn't want to share their hurts, Hang ups or anything that it dear to them with you.
So what do you when you and your mate are not on speaking terms? You pray. You call on the one person that can move that mountain for you.
I read this week that women seek love and men need respect. So do you respect your mate even when things seem hopeless. Do you respect them in the way you tall to them, or even when you talk about them?  Does your mate show you love in your language or just the way he wants to be loved. Are you speaking each other's language?

Marriage is hard work and no one can survive it, without being on their knees seeking God for his guidance and counsel  on the things that they need to maintain sanity at every firing dart the devil throws at you.

I have called on the master. What do you do?

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