I saw this article and thought it was a good read. in our society today, many of us and our children have witnessed some form of domestic violence, we struggle to understand why our child have detachment, attachment issues, issues with cutting, suicide, and the like. take a read. I promise it will open your mind up, I know mine did. Understand why you parent the way you do, why some of us can't feel connected to our own children . http://eds.a.ebscohost.com.ezproxy.uta.edu/ehost/pdfviewer/pdfviewer?sid=1709bd40-f8d5-4317-a438-15233b96beb0%40sessionmgr4003&vid=1&hid=4210