Grief rears its ugly head
This year I have suffered many losses. My grand mother died 3 years ago. My cousin recently passed from breast cancer my uncle suddenly had a heart attack and passed. All this loss has shown me how precious life is. I cried countless nights for my loved ones. I refuse to be depressed about it. I know that God has a plan for us all. Today, I spent time with a dear friend and he showed me what closure feels like. Every situation, does not feel the same. Two people can experience the same situation and come out feeling totally different things. Learning to love each person for who they are and not what they bring creates an atmosphere for pure love. I have being on this journey to my dayzafter. I have fallen in and out of love for years since my divorce. I dont regret any experience that I go through, for it teaches me more about me than I have ever learnt in 40 years. My dayzafter came in the form of a gentle breeze that brushed right into my life without me expecting it. T